Common Characteristics:
Loud and opinionated: speaks up about anything and is forceful with opinion.
Figure pointing: trying to discredit anyone at any opportunity.
Multi Focused: Meaning, seems to be focused every where they shouldn't be, and hardly where they should be.
Bossy: Has a way to verbalize in a manner that speaks down to people and over people.
Energy Obsorbing: What ever the issue, and there are many, this person has to speak about it intensely and command everyone's attention to it. Keeping others from focusing on there work and using the energy on what every the intense emergency is. example: a policy about toilet paper and while you are listening, a policy about policies for about two hours.
Mistaker/Cover upper: Because this person spends so much energy and time on just about everything, this person makes a lot of mistakes, then tries to cover it up by blaming others in office or where ever.
Credit taker: Takes credit for suggested way to do or handle something, right in front, or behind your back. Doesn't matter. Really doesn't think twice about it.
Tripper: Trips off at any thing that the brain cannot handle at the moment.
Trips off loudly, verbally and physically. A mere mention of anything to redirect this persons behavior, or to gently guide it in another direction is bound to trip this person off out of know where. Oh, who am I kidding, it could be just about anything...REALLY!
Ever so consistant, non consistant behavior: One moment - nice and sweet, next moment - ragging, eye popping, weirdo from hell. One moment of nice "please let me help you by doing that", next moment "I can't do anymore work, I am too over whelmed!".
This is not the end of it, but...by the end of the day as this person smokes a joint at her desk and writes in more time then she has actually worked... I am left wondering if I could actually get away with sneaking something like ativan in her pepsi.
I left this job, could not in anyway see a possible way out. The owner is not unlike this as well. I wonder...?
Igoring never seems to help, but only makes it worse, and saying something to anyone else only seems like a loosing battle.
The deal is ....situations like this are really a "no win". When I first start to see behaviors in people like this... I see a really good case for medication and only wish I had the power to force it on them. LOL
(Posted by Anonymous)
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